Question about fees

My perception is that there is a movement by BTC coin to imprison people's money instead of the initial idea that it would be freed, why do I say that? Well, it's no one's secret that brokers charged fees, so far ok. But even platforms like Satoshi and Bluesky, which should encourage accumulation precisely to make people-to-people transactions easier, are charging a very high fee, imagine paying for a cup of coffee with BTC in Sats and the fee being higher than the coffee? Unfeasible! I only made one operation and it's not worth it, the fees are high even on these platforms that claim to be everyday wallets... am I understanding this wrong?